Can you just wait for that one pure girl to come your way? Imagine if you find her could you wait for her? Your soul is tied to everyone you sleep with would you like to take that into her life? Or do you want her to have all of you? And for me I know I want all of her not just sex. Sex is suppose to be a plus but not why you get married. You get married bc of their personality and heart. They make you a better person and the make you Grow in God more than you would by yourself. They make you point out your own faults and fix them. If you see someone and the only thing you can say is OH WOW! Does that mean she’s the one? Idk but just wait and God will put everything into place. Now take that love your thinking about and think of how Jesus loves you that much and now think about how much you hurt him when you do what you want.